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 ** CSI Investigation Report ** -Finding Father’s Life    Minkyung Jung ENG 103 Section Fall 2010 Matthew Hartman 



Point #1. To make the point of investigation clear, I defined the meaning of father.

** Father ( **** f__ɑ:__ðə)  **  ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 20pt;">Derivative  ** ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt;">Noun ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt;">– ** fathering ** ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt;">Adjective **<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt;"> – ** fatherly ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">Fatherly feelings or actions are <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|paternal] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">, <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|kindly] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">,  <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|protective] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">,  <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|supportive] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">,  <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|benign] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">, <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|affectionate] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">, <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|patriarchal] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">,  <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|benevolent] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">, <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 8pt;"> ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 20pt;">Synonym  ** <span style="margin-left: 54pt; mso-line-height-alt: 10.5pt; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo4; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt;">- ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt;">Noun **<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt;"> <span style="margin-left: 56pt; mso-char-indent-count: -.5; mso-line-height-alt: 10.5pt; mso-para-margin-left: 5.0gd; text-indent: -6pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">- <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|daddy] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">, <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|dad] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">,  <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|male parent] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">,  <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|old man] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">,  <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|papa] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">, caregiver, supporter, lover,  <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">responsibility, sacrifice, superman, husband, son, merrymaker, worker, money patriarch, household, Santa Claus, hero <span style="margin-left: 54pt; mso-line-height-alt: 10.5pt; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo4; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt;">- ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt;">Verb **<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt;"> <span style="margin-left: 56pt; mso-char-indent-count: -.5; mso-line-height-alt: 10.5pt; mso-para-margin-left: 5.0gd; text-indent: -6pt;"> <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">- <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|sire] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">,  <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|parent] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">,  <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|conceive] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">,  <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|bring to life] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">,  <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|beget] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">,  <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|procreate] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">,  <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|bring into being] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">,  <span style="color: windowtext; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">[|give life to] <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">, s  <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';">acrifice, protect, support, care <span style="color: #313131; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif';"> ** <span style="color: #313131; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 20pt;">Meaning ** <span style="margin: 12pt 0cm 0pt 56pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 0gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-top: 12.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt;">- ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt;">Noun ** <span style="margin: 12pt 0cm 0pt 74pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo2; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 0gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-top: 12.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt;">1. Universalist; friend to daughter, teacher to son, husband to wife, son to parents, worker in workplace, Santa Claus in Christmas. <span style="margin: 12pt 0cm 0pt 74pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo2; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 0gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-top: 12.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt;">2. A person who always worries about family. <span style="margin: 12pt 0cm 0pt 74pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo2; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 0gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-top: 12.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt;">3. A person who can’t cry in front of family. <span style="margin: 12pt 0cm 0pt 74pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo2; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 0gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-top: 12.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt;">4. Someone who is absolutely indispensable to family. <span style="margin: 12pt 0cm 0pt 74pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo2; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 0gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-top: 12.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt;">5. A person who always cares about family. <span style="margin: 12pt 0cm 0pt 74pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo2; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 0gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-top: 12.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt;">6. A person who always think their family first than any others. <span style="margin: 12pt 0cm 0pt 74pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo2; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 0gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-top: 12.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt;">7. Unconditional love. <span style="margin: 12pt 0cm 0pt 56pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 0gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-top: 12.0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt;"> <span style="margin: 12pt 0cm 0pt 56pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 0gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-top: 12.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt;">- ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt;">Verb ** <span style="margin: 12pt 0cm 0pt 74pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo3; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 0gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-top: 12.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt;">1. Protect family without qualification with feeling happy. <span style="margin: 12pt 0cm 0pt 74pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo3; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 0gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-top: 12.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt;">2. Support family without qualification with feeling happy. <span style="margin: 12pt 0cm 0pt 74pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo3; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 0gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-top: 12.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt;">3. Sacrifice oneself for family’s happiness. <span style="margin: 12pt 0cm 0pt 74pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo3; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 0gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-top: 12.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt;">4. Brings life, raises, cares and loves without qualification. <span style="margin: 12pt 0cm 0pt 74pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo3; mso-para-margin-bottom: .0001pt; mso-para-margin-left: 0gd; mso-para-margin-right: 0cm; mso-para-margin-top: 12.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt;">5. Endure hard time and do not show weakness in front of family. <span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 20pt; line-height: 200%;">

<span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 20pt; line-height: 200%;">Point #2. To know the target exactly, I analyzed the target's brain structure. <span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 20pt; line-height: 200%;"> <span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 20pt; line-height: 200%;">

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Evidence #1. Daughter's Memoir

<span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: center; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> Memoir <span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> In Korean society, I was born, and I have been raised for 20 years. I had a very happy childhood life under my parents' roof. My father, careful and always think about his children, is always my friend, advisor and he is the best architecture in my life. In my mind he is always the world best architecture. He doesn’t only build a house on the land but also build a house in my mind. Actually, my father himself was a house to me. In my physical home, which was built by my father, built with brick and concrete, my body ate, slept and took a rest. In my mental home, which was also built by my father, built with dream and warmth, my mind learned, grew and took a rest. <span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> I was born 1990. It was the time when Korea was enjoying its golden age. People could enjoy their own life. People had a dream that Korea will become a developed country soon. I can’t remember my baby time exactly, but I know how our family was happy, at least in financial way, through pictures and parents’ saying. Until I became a 7 years old, our family was quite abundant financially. But when I became an 8 years old, elementary school student 1st grade, everything was changed. Mother had to find a job, because my father’s business was in crisis. And it was hard for us to maintain our life just with my father’s income. It was hard to buy an ice-cream with money that I used to pay for it. The number of my parent’s fighting increased. It was all because of IMF. At that time, I even didn’t know what IMF is. But I really hated that word. Every news said about IMF. Adults always worried about it. <span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> IMF, International Monetary Fund, financial crisis hit the Korea. Price of products increased sharply. Many people lost their job. Many companies went bankrupt. Many fathers became homeless and decided to suicide. In Korean, conservative and male-oriented society, usually fathers support family. So, when they lost their jobs, they lost their meaning of life. At least, it was fortunate that my father didn’t lose his job. Anyway, however, our family’s financial situation became harder and harder. <span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> I was not enough old to know about financial or economic things, but I could feel. Because my mother had to go for a work and I had to take care of my two younger brothers. I was the oldest but I was just 8 years old. Second oldest was 7 years old, the youngest was only 2 years old. After I finished school, I had to go back to my home directly, because I had to take care of my brothers. It was quite confusing to 8-year-old girl that there wasn’t mother at home when I came back to school. I can remember the day I cried with my youngest brother so hardly, because of the reason that there was no mother in house after we came back from play ground. The number of seeing drunken father in the afternoon in the house increased. I really loved my father but I hated drunken father. <span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> Because of an evil IMF, my father changed slightly. Even though he liked drinking before, the number of seeing drunken father increased. And when he got drunk, he was totally different person. Whenever he got drunk, my parents fought awfully and my mother cried. Whenever my parents fought I was always on my mother’s side. <span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> Many years passed, I became a college student, my brother went to the high school for an air force. My mother didn’t want to make my brother to go to that school. However, the school offered 3 years scholarship to my brother. So my mother made him to go there. She cried a lot when my brother entered a school. She said it is all because of difficulty in my family finance. Although many years passed from IMF, our family finance didn’t get better. <span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> Because of financial difficulty, my father lost his authority. Even though national financial crisis was not my father’s fault, he felt great responsibility for his family. His responsibility became burden to him. He worked really hard for his family. Because of work, he couldn’t have enough time to enjoy his leisure time. My father didn’t have enough time to take a rest. He was always busy to make money for his family. He even worked on Sunday. While he was working, I used that money he earned hard. But I didn’t even feel gratitude for it. In my mind, I couldn’t see father who worked hard for us. I just could see drunken father. Because I hated drunken father, relationship between I and my father got worse and worse. At that time, I couldn’t understand the reason my father drank alcohol. I couldn’t figure it out that my father drank because the reality was so harsh to him. Drinking alcohol was the only leisure that he could do and the only method he could use to forget the harsh reality. But I didn’t know that. I didn’t even try to understand him. <span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> One day, my father got drunk again. As ordinary times, my parents started fighting. As ordinary times, I was on my mother’s side. I shouted to my father and said bad words which made scars on his mind. He was angry. He yelled and shouted to me. But it was not because of me. He was angry to himself. As a father and a patriarch, his responsibility to his family was great. But because of money, he lost his authority and always had a sense of inferiority. He always did his best to make his family happy, but family didn’t know that. He was lonely and wanted to escape from reality. Because of family who he has to take care, however, he couldn’t do that. National financial crisis was not his fault, but he always blamed himself. And at that time, I was so selfish that I couldn’t think about my father’s life. I just thought that the father is the only one who always care and understand me whatever I do. So, I couldn’t understand that he was yelling and shouting at me. <span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> So, I called the police. I reported my father to the police. I lied to them. I reported that a stranger trespassed on my house. I made my father as a stranger and an offender. Finally police officer came. At that time all fighting ended and my mother left the house. I was afraid. I was afraid neither my father nor the situation. I was afraid on myself. I was afraid on the girl who reported her father to the police. I cried. Police officer asked if I really don’t know the stranger. Of course not, he was my father. I sobbingly said to the police, “He is my father.” <span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> For a little, the police officer didn’t say anything. He lost his word. As a father to his children, he couldn’t understand me. He blamed on me. “How could the daughter report her father to the police?” the police officer said. <span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> Then, my father defended me. “Stop!” my father said, “You can’t blame on her. It was my fault. I drank too much so I made her feel bad. She was afraid of me. She is not that bad girl. This time she got a scholarship from university. I’m so proud of her. Because I was too happy, I drank too much. It is my fault. It is okay now. I’m sorry, but it is our family’s problem. You can go now.” My father was totally on my side, even though I had never been on his side before. <span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> Police officer did some research, and left. Until then, I was so afraid of myself that I couldn’t go out of the room. After police officer left, my father came to me and said sorry. He didn’t blame on me and even didn’t try to explain himself. He just said, “I’m sorry. I’m always a bad father to you. I’m sorry to make you scared. You are always a good daughter. I’m really proud of you. In contrast, I always show you my bad weaknesses. I’m sorry. I’m disqualified to become your father haha. Take some nap. Hope you can forgive me after that. I love you.” <span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> He smiled at me, but I could see his tear and hurt in his mind. I couldn’t say anything. I did worst thing that I ever could do to my father. But he didn’t blame on me. Instead of that, he blamed himself. At that time, I realized. In my father’s mind, there’s only love to his family. He always did his best to make his family happy. But sometimes he couldn’t do it. That became burden to him. Responsibility to his family became burden to his mind. Whenever he felt his burden was too heavy for him, he drank. Although his burden was too heavy for him to care just by himself, he didn’t say that he was painful. Because he didn’t want to make his family worry about him. I didn’t know that and even didn’t want to know that. So, I didn’t try to help to load off my father’s burden. I felt guilty. I was so mean to my father for a long time. But even for that moment, he always loved me and took care of me. I cried hard and fell asleep. In the dream, I found the house in my mind, which my father built for me. For a long time, I didn’t use that house but it was still warm and fulfilled with love. I could take a rest comfortably and felt true love in my father’s home. <span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> After taking a nap, I went to my father’s room. He was taking a nap too. He was not a hero anymore that I knew before. When I was young, for me, he was a hero to me, like a superman. He was really strong and could do everything. Now, he is old and weak. I found out that this is my turn. Now, it is my turn to become a heroine to my father, take care of him and return the love I’ve taken from him.

<span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> **Evidence #2. We found the recipe of principal food which the target usually eats.** <span style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; text-align: left; text-autospace: ideograph-numeric; word-break: keep-all;"> **﻿** ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 200%;">Recipe for making real father ** ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 200%;">Prep Time **<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">: At least 30 year - You have to wait until your main ingredient, a boy, grows, matures, marries and has children. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;"> ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 200%;">Cook Time **<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">: Until your main ingredient, a boy, passes away. Because of development of modern medical science, it will take longer and longer. Once a man becomes a father, he is a father forever, even after he dies. You have to be patient. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;"> ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 200%;">Ready In **<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">: You have to leave a margin. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 200%;"> ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 200%;">Ingredients ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">1. Main ingredient – A boy which is matured, nice, patient and kind. Do not need to be smart or has much money, but has to have a responsibility and love. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">2. 10000000000000 pounds responsibility. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">3. 9877632 cloves patience. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">4. Infinity liters love. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">5. 43654768323425 pounds courage. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">6. 1 tea spoon of selfishness. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">7. Small amount of chopped loneliness. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;"> ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 200%;">Directions ** <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">1. Put love in a big pot and boil at least 30 years. Until your main ingredient realizes true love. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">2. Stir selfishness with love until it doesn’t make a taste. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">3. Cut courage into pieces about 1/2 inch in size. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">4. Sprinkle responsibility on the courage evenly. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">5. Mix patience with chopped loneliness until other family can’t taste loneliness. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">6. Put all ingredients together in the boiled true love. <span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 200%;">7. Cook it for a long time until all family find happiness.

Evidence #3. Father's Schedule ** <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">Father’s daily schedule   ** <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">AM 6:00 Get out of bed. Eat breakfast alone. (Wife can’t get out of bed early.) <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> 7:00 Go to work. Sleepy and tired. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> 8:00 Conference with employees. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> 9:00 Check mail and complaint from customers. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> 10:00 Make a blueprint for next construction. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> 11:00 Go to the construction site. Meet construction manager. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">Check progress. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> 12:00 Cheap and quick lunch with construction workers. Listen complaint. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">PM 1:00 Go to bank. Send money for daughter’s college tuition. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">Hope my daughter study hard and become what she really wants to be. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">2:00 Meet a customer who complained about construction. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> 3:00 Meeting with customers for construction. Important meeting. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> 4:00 Go back to construction site. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> 5:00 Cancel the hospital appointment. Too busy to go to hospital. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> 6:00 Time to get off work. Too many things to do. Work over time. <span style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 49.65pt; mso-char-indent-count: -2.23; mso-para-margin-left: 2.29gd; text-indent: -26.75pt;"> <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">7:00 Stop by mother’s house. These days mother is too old and weak. So worry about her. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> 8:00 Go to bank. Send money to mother’s bank account. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> 9:00 Late dinner with employees. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> 10:00 Drink alcohol with employees to forget harsh reality. <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;"> 11:00 Come back home. Sorry for my family. <span style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 23.7pt; mso-char-indent-count: -.2; mso-para-margin-left: 2.13gd; text-indent: -2.4pt;"> <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">12:00 Want to talk with my family. However, cannot tell my pain. <span style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21.3pt; mso-char-indent-count: 3.0; mso-para-margin-left: 2.13gd; text-indent: 36pt;"> <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">I don’t want to make my family worry about me.

Evidence # 4. Father's Diary Dear Diary, Today was hard day. These days, I’m so busy that I even can’t take a rest during Sunday. National financial doesn’t seem getting better. And our company is in hard time too. Meeting customers who always find complaint about construction, facing accounts and asking for overdue payment and being chased by creditors, everything is so stressful. And these are almost my daily schedule. But I always do my best for my family. Because my family is there, I can stand this harsh reality. Even though I get stress a lot, when I see my family’s face I get power. The biggest goal in my life is making my family happy. My daughter gets a huge scholarship for her college. I’m really proud of her. But these days I continuously feel that I don’t deserve to be a father of this great daughter. I always show my bad things to my daughter. My daughter really hates that I’m drinking alcohol. I know that she worries about my health. But I don’t know why I can’t quit drinking alcohol. My daughter always makes me happy and gives me happiness but I can’t give enough happiness to her. I feel so bad. Because of drinking alcohol I always make my family hurt. These days, I feel like becoming worse and worse. I know my family doesn’t want me to drink much. And I know if I get drunk, I can’t control myself well. But these days, in this harsh reality, the only thing that helps me forget this harshness are drinking alcohol and my family. However, my family doesn’t want me to drink alcohol. Whenever I get dunk, my children ignore me and my wife and I always fight. I don’t like this situation. But I can’t help. I really hate myself. I really love my family, but why I can’t give everything they want. Sincerely, Dad <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">

Evidence #5. Daughter's Letter to Father <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">Dear Father, <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; font-size: 5pt; line-height: 150%;"> <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">It is so weird that I’m trying to write a letter to you. Actually we always see each other. And you were more like friend than adult to me. Because of that, it is not easy to write a formal letter to you. So, it took me a lot of time to handle a pen and write a first sentence of letter to you. I feel so awkward now. Maybe you can’t read this letter, because if you read this letter, I <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">’ <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">ll be really embarrassed. <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">When I was young, although I can’t remember exactly, you were my superman. You could do everything. Whenever I was sad or angry you came to me and made me happy again. When my favorite doll was broken, you fixed it. When I got a scolding form my mother, you were always on my side. My favorite time was making donuts with you after got a scolding from my mother. For me, father, you were a big tree which supplies sweet fruits that I could eat, has a huge trunk that I could lean and below your tree I could take a rest and make my mind comfortable. <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">For me, you were a generous giving tree like a tree in fairy tale book. And I was like a boy in that book. I was always given to you. Because of that, I took granted your love. Because your love was always with me, I didn <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">’ <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">t know how much it is. You sacrificed yourself for us during decades. Even though we live in same place, I didn <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">’ <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">t know that you didn <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">’  <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">t have enough time to take a rest. You <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">’ <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">ve never told us that you are painful, so I thought you are still a superman. And I became wanting more and more. But the more I becoming adult and getting a power, my superman, you, were getting older and weaker. I didn <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">’ <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">t know that. So, I always complained to you. I thought you always can do everything and you are always strong. So, if you couldn <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">’ <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">t do something for me, I blamed on you. I <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">’ <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">m really sorry. I was always such a bad daughter. I had to walk a mile in your shoes, at least once. But I didn <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">’ <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">t even try. Because of that, you always struggled with harsh reality by yourself. You endured the weight of burden by yourself. <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">However, from now on, you are not alone. Now, I want to be your young tree. You can eat my fruit, lean on my trunk and take a rest under the shade. And after I grew up enough to build a house, I <span style="font-family: 맑은 고딕;">’ <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">ll make you a small but neat house for you, as you always did it for me. I love you. I always did, but found out the truth now. I love you dad. <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;"> <span style="font-family: 'HY엽서L','serif'; line-height: 150%;">Love, Minkyung